I used to think being financially supported by a man was just the way motherhood was. Hell, my dad went to work and took care of our family while my mom stayed home with us. Boy, was I wrong. As an adult, I now realize that the Avon, Tupperware, and babysitting my mom did was her […]
Personal Growth
Reclaiming My Life: Choosing Self over Silence
Almost 6 years ago, I left my marriage for good. I was prepared to walk away from everything. I knew when it actually came down to it, I would be the one left with nothing. By that point, I was okay with that. Because I knew what I was getting in return. I was getting […]
Choosing Between- My Baby and a Paycheck
I remember sitting on the couch, pregnant with my youngest son, tears streamed down my face heavily pregnant with my youngest son. I had ALWAYS had stay-at-home mom vibes in my heart, but unexpected fear crashed over me. My life is significantly different now. I am in a healthy relationship. I OWN my own house. […]
Empowering Change: Leaving My Marriage and Embracing Control for a Happier Life
The day I left my marriage, I wasn’t ready. I didn’t think that day was the day it would be over. It was like ripping off a bandaid. You know it’s going to hurt. You don’t want to do it, but you know it needs to be done. I made a commitment to myself that […]
From Solo Camping- to Family Adventures
7 years ago, I took my two boys on our very first solo camping trip. I was scared to do it alone, but I was also tired of waiting for a family camping trip that never came. So I did it by myself. I loaded my Dad’s truck up with the tent, sleeping bags, camp […]
Will you ever enjoy a holiday again?
This isn’t easy to say, but I know there was a point in my marriage when I said I NEVER want to spend another holiday like that again. I was miserable. Holidays weren’t enjoyable. Everything was stressful. I was constantly on edge. I tell you this not to brag- but I just had the most […]