I saw my boyfriend and toddler napping on the couch… And felt nothing but love. So why is it so damn hard to give myself permission to rest? The short answer? I’ve been conditioned to feel like my worth is based on my productivity. Last week at my counseling appointment, I had been feeling pretty overwhelmed with […]
Personal Growth
I don’t want your money-
I used to think being financially supported by a man was just the way motherhood was. Hell, my dad went to work and took care of our family while my mom stayed home with us. The American Dream, right? Dad goes to work, brings home the bacon and mom stays home and takes care of the […]
Reclaiming My Life: Choosing Self over Silence
Almost 6 years ago, I left my marriage for good. I was prepared to walk away from everything. I knew when it actually came down to it, I would be the one left with nothing. By that point, I was okay with that. Because I knew what I was getting in return. I was getting […]
Choosing Between- My Baby and a Paycheck
I remember sitting on the couch, pregnant with my youngest son, tears streamed down my face heavily pregnant with my youngest son. I had ALWAYS had stay-at-home mom vibes in my heart, but unexpected fear crashed over me. My life is significantly different now. I am in a healthy relationship. I OWN my own house. […]
Empowering Change: Leaving My Marriage and Embracing Control for a Happier Life
The day I left my marriage, I wasn’t ready. I didn’t think that day was the day it would be over. It was like ripping off a bandaid. You know it’s going to hurt. You don’t want to do it, but you know it needs to be done. I made a commitment to myself that […]
From Solo Camping- to Family Adventures
7 years ago, I took my two boys on our very first solo camping trip. I was scared to do it alone, but I was also tired of waiting for a family camping trip that never came. So I did it by myself. I loaded my Dad’s truck up with the tent, sleeping bags, camp […]