The birthday of my youngest son signifies new beginnings, possibilities, growth and healing. 5 years ago, I made a choice that sent my life on a different trajectory. I took a stance and prioritized myself, my convictions, my safety and my wellbeing. Before that, I had lost sight of my dreams I had lost sight […]
Relationships
The day I gave it back
My heart broke over and over again as I watched him fade away. My world collapsed in on itself as I struggled to keep my own head above water. A war was raging inside of him and I was being dragged into a battle that was not mine. I did everything I could to help- […]
Where are you putting your energy?
Once upon a time, I thought it was my job to help. Once upon a time, I thought it was my job to fix. Once upon a time, I was not focused on myself. I’ve walked into a dark room, my loved one swallowed up by blankets, hiding from the world, shaking and shivering. I […]
Why does she stay?
If it’s that bad, why does she stay? For me, personally, the answer is- because it was easier. Not easier in the way you might think. Easier as in familiar, I knew what to expect. Easier because I felt like I had some control. Let me paint you a picture- You are upstairs. Your three […]
The In Between
There are 3 parts of my adult life- the before, the in between and the after.
Behind closed doors
Of course it doesn’t happen all at once. I am a strong, independent, college educated woman. Why in the world would I tolerate being treated that way? Because it doesn’t start out like that. You fall in love with a man on his best behavior, a man trying to impress you. When communication falls short, […]